May 16

Objectivity and Healing Perspective

A few weeks ago, a man reached out to me through my website to enquire about my ghostwriting service.

He openly shared that he wished to tell his story of his experiences of growing up in an abusive environment – sexual, physical and emotional neglect, how that created decades of suffering for him but how that now, at 35, he is able to detach himself and see life through a very different lens, and very objectively.

He then went on to lose work through the impact of Covid and could not enter into ghostwriting, but instead, I am guiding him to write the story himself.

What has struck me with this incredible guy is that he has never blamed another person. Even as a child, he was able to view life quite differently to many, has never had any therapy and it has been through deep introspection that he freed himself from the act of suffering.

His objectivity is stunning.

I cannot wait for this story to be unleashed as I personally find it highly inspirational and quite remarkable.

Do you have a story that could make a significant difference to others?

I delight in helping to birth these stories and get them out to a much bigger audience through the power of a published book.

Use the link on the contact page to speak with me.


You can read my full story here, from when I was ten years old and what happened to me. I was admitted to a psychiatric unit at fifteen and continued to suffer throughout my adult life with feelings of self-hatred, fear, darkness and not knowing who I was. I used addictions to help me to cope on the outside when the inside was chaotic. I finally found my healing and had a burning desire to share this with the universe to give love, hope and inspiration to others in pain.

Don’t tell me the moon is shining; show me the glint of light on broken glass

Anton Chekhov